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Jennifer Lopez opened up about her love life after her split from Ben Affleck. The 55-year-old icon filed to divorce Ben, 52, earlier this summer. In a new interview, she reflected on if she is looking to get back into dating as a single woman. Keep reading to find out more… Speaking to Nikki Glaser for Interview, Jennifer shared thoughts on learning to love yourself before falling in love with someone else. “That, to me, is a scary thing too, or a confusing thing, because it’s like, ‘Oh, you couldn’t love me if I have flaws. I have to be perfect to be loved,’” she admitted. “That’s not true! Somebody who truly loves you will help you heal those parts of yourself.” She continued, saying, “That’s what I’ve learned about love, that it is a secure thing. You make me feel safe, and when I fall short of the glory, you understand me and you help me to grow to be better, because you have your boundaries and I have my boundaries.” When Nikki noted that she had “a new bar for the next person that comes along,” Jennifer made it clear that her next partner would not be coming soon. “Here’s the thing: There’s no new bar because I’m not looking for anybody. How’s that,” she said, noting that it was the “first time” she could say that while single. She added, “You know what? For people who are romantics and love being in relationships and want to grow old with somebody, we think, ‘I have to have that to be whole and happy.’ And you don’t.” Jennifer joked that “It only took 30 years” for her to reach that point. In the interview, she seemingly made a few other references to her divorce.
