'Moving On'! Jennifer Lopez 'Hasn't Seen' Ben Affleck In 'Weeks'!

Wow. Looks like hope for a reconciliation is as short as Ben Affleck‘s new hair.

We heard recently Jennifer Lopez was having trouble “fully” accepting their brief marriage was really over already. But all evidence to the contrary, right? We mean, she’s not acting like someone holding on to the past as she shops for her own new home, a new $60+ million mansion to replace the one Ben couldn’t get comfortable in.

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Just as it looks, the real estate move is a desire to move on. A source told People Tuesday afternoon:

“They’re moving on separately. Jennifer is trying to find a new home to start fresh.”

Separately is the operative word there. Not only are they not together together, they haven’t even been in the same room in a long time! The insider says J.Lo “hasn’t seen Ben for weeks”!

Of course, she’s been in the Hamptons having a fun summer with friends and her kids — including Ben’s own daughter Violet Affleck! She source said:

“Considering everything that’s going on, Jennifer is having a good summer. She’s been off and able to focus on what’s next. She’s enjoyed spending time with her kids, family and friends… She always has good attitude even when things are not perfect.”

But what’s next is clearly taking that step away from her husband. She recently returned to the West Coast to do her house hunting. And she still hasn’t taken the time to have a sit-down with Ben. Heck, she apparently hasn’t even seen that wild new hairstyle! If that isn’t your sign it’s over, we don’t know what is.

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