Selena Gomez tells haters to ‘f–k off’ after revealing she can’t carry children: Vulnerability is ‘not shameful’

Selena Gomez told haters to “f–k off” after her confession about carrying children. Deadline via Getty Images

Selena Gomez is celebrating the “power in being vulnerable” after revealing she can’t carry children.

The actress recently told anyone who views her as a victim over her “medical issues” to “f–k off” in a viral video circulating via X.

The “Only Murders in the Building” star, who was at a Women in Film event at the time, said, “Telling people when you need help or when you want help — that is not shameful.”

The actress is unable to do so due to “medical issues.” Getty Images for Netflix Gomez shared this because there is “power in being vulnerable.” Instagram/@rarebeauty

Gomez, 32, added, “So yeah, I shared that I can’t carry a child. Yeah, I shared that I have bipolar. F–k off. That’s what my life is. That’s who I am.”

She continued, “That’s why I like to be honest. Because everyone is going through something. I don’t have it all put together. I’m not a, you know, whatever. I am me and that’s all I can be.”

The “Wizards of Waverly Place” alum advised her sister, Gracie, and the rest of the attendees to not “ever let anyone tell you that you’re not a good person.”

She doesn’t want anyone to view her as a “victim.” AFP via Getty Images “I like to be honest,” Gomez said, “because everyone is going through something.” Getty Images

She concluded, “Screw anyone who tells you you’re a victim. You’re a survivor in my book.”

Earlier this month, the former Disney Channel star opened up about adoption and surrogacy being “huge possibilities” for her while speaking to Vanity Fair.

“I unfortunately … have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s in jeopardy,” Gomez explained in her cover story. “That was something I had to grieve for awhile.”

The singer has vocalized other struggles in the past. Getty Images for Netflix She shared her lupus diagnosis in 2015. Getty Images

She admitted, “It’s not necessarily the way I envisioned it. I thought it would happen the way it happens for everyone.”

The realization made the singer, who is currently dating Benny Blanco, “really thankful for the other outlets for people who are dying to be moms.”

She told the magazine, “I’m one of those people. I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different.”

Five years later, she revealed her bipolar diagnosis. Getty Images The former Disney Channel star is dating Benny Blanco. selenagomez/Instagram

In addition to her fertility reveal, Gomez has been vocal in the past about her lupus struggles, as well as her mental health.

The Grammy nominee shared her bipolar diagnosis in 2020, telling Elle the following year that she “felt a huge weight lifted off” when she found out.

She discussed it in her Apple TV+ documentary, “My Mind & Me,” in 2022, which was shot over a six-year span.