Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you- Doyin advises Women

Controversial reality TV star, Doyin David has advised women to wait until marriage before putting their responsibilities on men.

The outspoken podcaster, while replying to a fan who came to seek advice after her boyfriend left her for calling him stingy believes that any act of kindness a man performs for his partner in a relationship is an act of generosity.

Doyin stressed that until a man and his partner walk down the aisle, he is not required to be responsible for a woman’s expenses.

In her words:

“I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man, but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend. [sic].

“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you…. whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart, but you should never feel entitled to his money.

“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man who is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birthright. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.

“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”